Test of forgiveness

Written 4/26/2008 7:54:15 PM by naytiplovchika

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Someone in your life did something really nasty to you. There is no point forgiving them if they haven't changed and don't want to change...they will just abuse you again. But often people do learn to be more kind (and forgiving) and then its time for you to put away the anger and try to forgive them. You will grow and learn and perhaps you two will become very close friends. SO - make a list of people you absolutely cannot stand - and next to their name write the thing they did you hate about them. Eliminate the ones that are simply obnoxious or arrogant people...just people who actually did something nasty to you. Finally call up one or two of them and ask them to lunch and see if you can be kind to them for 1 hour and see if they have changed. If not, you grew stronger and they did not. If they have changed, don't jump in head first - you aren't sure if their change is real, but you can begin to explore, carefully, this new person and if it is true they have changed then you w

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