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After the Breakup How Rational Are You?

Written 1/5/2008 11:11:26 PM by jayej  | 
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This is a test to do a self check on how rational you are during/after a breakup. I am taking the opportunity to make up this test using "real life" examples. As a kicker the "real life" circumstances are taken from the life of individuals right here on MD. So in conclusion what I am attempting to show is be very careful when choosing a partner on line, get to know them. Because sometimes.......rationale gets checked at the door during/after a break up.

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Comments:
A_TRAMP

Jan 6 @ 6:05AM  
WELL I LIED DID ANYONE ELSE
needa

Jan 6 @ 9:12AM  
strange - i couldn't answer 4 because i don't call or im - once it's over and the break is finished, i'm done.
roythead

Jan 6 @ 5:50PM  
Basically you left out a few options, Like does she still call you regular, and is the only reason you argue is that you refuse to let this person continue to run(ruin) your life.
And when there are kids involved there are quite a few heated discussions. Its either that or Let your kids forget who you are.
What did i get from trying to be nice and negotiate? I let my ex have my daughter back an hour early for Christmas morning. Took her back at 9 instead of 10 am. Found out the next day that her Mother was down in Dallas with the her new boyfriend(no problem there)but didn't make it home till 6 pm.So I gave my Daughter up early trying to work with my ex, and she isn't even there for my daughter. Can't work with people like that.
LadyPassion73

Jan 8 @ 10:46AM  
For me, I tend to remain friends with my ex's and often set them up on their next date. I only call them if they wish to remain friends because more often than not, I am the one breaking up.
jamison

Jan 10 @ 12:31AM  
I MISS MY EX BUT MY AIM KEEPS IMPROVING SOME DAY ILL WASTE THAT DAMNED KUNT!
carold

Jan 10 @ 12:52PM  
I don't waste time or energy hating people or trying to pursue someone when things don't work out. Most of the time we remain friends. That is when we meet up somewhere we say hi but go our separate ways. He has his life I have mine. My ex and I do maintain a friendship of sorts for the sake of our kids and grandkids. He is the father of my children and with that said deserves the respect that the title carries. We go to our grandchildren's activities and cheer together. Things weren't always bad we just didn't work out. There is no sense in being childish about things.
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:52PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:52PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:52PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:52PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:54PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:54PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:54PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:55PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:55PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
wayner73

Jan 12 @ 9:55PM  
that test was messed up.....there were no right answers.your questions didnt fit my situation. but i was the putz who took it so shame on me
DanoTR

Jan 15 @ 11:13PM  
Doesn't apply very well when there are kids involved.
yankeefanJJ

Jan 22 @ 5:27PM  
iam sad but iam dissapointed to i found my girlfreind and my best freind haveing sex and i suffer watching it i was pissed now sad and lonely
bbwgirl1128

Jan 25 @ 8:03AM  
I don't think it's very common, but it happened to me. I parted with my ex-boyfriend last summer because of the distance. We're still very good friends. We email or chat regularly. I would certainly continue to keep friendship with him even if I have found my new love at pluscupid.com. We're just good friends. If a guy feel threatened by that, that's his problem.
Dovestreasure

Jan 27 @ 4:37AM  
I do not think the test provided adequate options to choose from. Typically for me when its over its over.When I had my last breakup he and I did still communicate after for awhile. He then suggested that we both give each other space and stop communicating. I respected his wishes and we went nearly a year without calling one another. He called me when he was having problems with his new girl friend. It was nice to hear from him. A day or two later his new GF called me. We had a really nice talk and I thought she was pretty cool. They worked out their problems and I am happy for both of them. I still think about him but out of respect for him and his GF I would not initiate any contact . I was proud of how I handled our break up. I loved him too much to make him miserable.
nowandlater

Feb 7 @ 10:38PM  
I don't know how the creator of this test came up with the questions, answers or conclusion (score), but it really doesnt't make a bit of sense. If you have no contact whatsoever after breakup, you can't answer questions 6 - 9 because there is no option available. If you answer 1 -5 as you wish your ex-partner well but that you have no contact whatsoever, then the conclusion at the end is that you are overly emotional and you should back off? WTF????...I hope the author isn't a scientist or has a career that affects peoples lives...
Strata2007

Feb 18 @ 11:12AM  
LOL A lot of this did not apply to me and no matter the response the outcome was the same LOL
Good laugh
tinalynn33

Feb 19 @ 12:06AM  
Those questions were kinda hard to answer..even the phone call part..I call there when my child is with him..so ya..how do you answer that..We talk alot about our daughter..I don't see how this even rates lol.....Serious not..i'm not an over emotional person lol...not with him anyways lol
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